Neghits basically is used to bring a bitch down to size:) When a woman knows she looks good (9 or 10), and she is there surrounded by friends, she has to put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch? Very unlikely.
All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.
She need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these LOSER guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, "can I buy you a drink?" she WILL be annoyed by this. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for her, she's been getting this attention since she was 13! She is desensitised to this. You are the 8th guy TODAY, GOD DAMN!
So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. Shit, she HAS to be... she isn't going to sleep with ALL of them! :) So she may say NO or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and walks off pissed and feeling like a failure (WHICH SOMETIMES HE IS,LOL). And that seems to work.
Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the beer alleze, long island ice tea, whatever, and then flake the guy off.
Hey, if the guys are stupid enough to buy her one, she might as well take it. When they take a drink from you, the girl is saying to you, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys and since I don't respect you, Ill take the beer from you before I diss you."
Since a 9 or 10 is so GOOD at snuffing your approach (nothing ever personal either - it is a strategy that is built over years of stupid guys approaches EVERY FRIGGING DAY), she will do the same to YOU.
That is why DISSING THEM is important. You cant INSULT them because they are used to all the hurt guys INSULTING them ("ahh you are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass :)
How do you DISS her without INSULTING her? First of all, guys, i'm talking about a 9 or 10 here. The 5's and 6's etc have low esteem anyway so if you use a neghit on them you will ruin them, and ruin your chances.
Now the question is, why do 9 and 10s dress so FINE if they don't want the attention? Because they LOVE the feeling of control they have with guys. They know the power they wield over most men so they use it to their advantage. Have you ever noticed that every time a woman gets a chance to control a man she jumps at it! So they are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle (social hierarchy in primates) and so she gets all the attention.
The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the guys down. Its all in a days play.
Your Stategy: So she is wearing fake nails or weive to look even BETTER! Most guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful!" BORING, typical kiss ass supplicator, and in her mind by now (after years of the same suplicating kiss asses) TRUE.
Imagine a guy comes along and says "nice nails, are they real?"
She will have to concede, "no. acrylic." and he says (like he didn't notice it was a put down "oh. (pause) well I guess they still LOOK good." Then he turns his back to her and keep talking to his wingman, her friend who is a 6 or whoever. What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and INSULT her. He complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity.
She thinks, "IM HOT IM BEAUTIFUL (especially in that emotional state of control as in the public)... but I didn't win this guy over. IM SO GOOD at this. ILL just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me." Then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic like travelling etc.
During this year (and every damn year) her intention is to get you to become like all the other kiss ass suplicators, so she can feel in control and snuff you. You then give her another NEG HIT like this ... " is that weive? well, its neat... what do you call this hairstyle?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty. This will intrigue her because she KNOWS guys. And this isn't normal. You must have really high taste, lol, or be used to girls or be married or something. In other words she will be confused.
These questions make her CURIOUS. So this keeps happening and is known as FLIRTING. She give you little neg hits and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by neg hitting her back. After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But... why? To get control again she says, "will you buy me a drink?" notice how she is trying to get you now! BUT, she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can SNUFF you.
That is all she is about - this strategy is all she knows and it's not working for you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite understand WHY you don't think she is great. After all, her nails ARE fake. You say, " ahhh, that's so funny ... you nose moves when you speak...... (pointing and being cute) look there it goes again ... its so... quaint ... hheeeee look " :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp!" :) *blush*.
Now she is self conscious and having her in this state is where you want her. You have, with 3 neg hits, successfully created INTEREST (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her bitch shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.
You didn't take her shit. OH, and when she asked you for a beer, you said, " No. I don't buy girls drinks. but YOU can buy ME one". You are qualifying HER now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her RESPECT for you.
If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn your back to her again. DONT walk away, just turn your back, talk to your wingman or something. You are neg hitting her again just when she thought she was negging YOU. This is all psychology, guys, stick with me.
Qualify her: A NEG HIT is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgement call on your part.The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using neg hits. A 10 can get 3 neg hits up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a longer time.
You CAN go overboard and you know this if they begin to think you are BETTER than them. You can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to guys) and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can start appreciating things about her (NEVER LOOKS). There is mutual RESPECT now. Something most guys never get from the girl.
This is how you remove a bitch shield. 3 neg hits ought to do it within 2 or 3 minutes of neutral chat. Once it is down, (why should she have an unfair advantage) you can from a mutual respect place, seduce her:)
Now, like I said before, once you get her to this point, dont start kissing her ass again. Now you need to work on the close. This is your whole objective, remember!
Examples of negging a beauty. (Only for use with 10s or 9s who simply HAVE to know they ARE beautiful, any less beautiful girls can easily be destroyed by these!)
After you've negged her looks in some manner, follow up with:
"You are really interesting, or at least you're not THAT ugly." :)
"No really, I've seen uglier girls" (all the time smiling or laughing)
"Well, at least you should be lucky to have a good body [to compensate for whatever it was you negged]"
Here are some more:
"You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls (LIFT). Are those heels 4 or 5 inches (DROP)?"
"You blink alot"
"You have snot comming out your nose. Its not showing much though."
"Your nose wiggles when you talk:)"
"Weren't you wearing this dress the last time you were here?"
"Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?"
"Oooh... Sick... You just spit on me!" (when the girl is talking to you)
"Your hair looks kinda nice"
"I don't think we should get to know each other."
HER: "Why?"
YOU: "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me."
HER: (whatever, it doesn't matter because she will try for you now)

Ok, so you've been on three dates together and you're ready for something a little bit more, er, "mature". How do you go about making that first move? This article will explore that important, terrifying step.
Men: unless you're James Bond (by the way - you're not!) she probably isn't going to excuse herself and "slip into something more comfortable". If she does, it's probably going to be some flannel pajamas, slippers, and a bathrobe - a sign that she's ready for you to leave!
Women expect that you know when to make your move. Further, they expect you to be sophisticated and smooth about it. Clumsy, boyish behavior doesn't fit with her image of being "swept off her feet", and you don't really want this critical step to end in laughter!
The Rules
First, let's explore the rules for The First Move:
1) Women control the speed of the relationship - and the sex - not men.
2) Women know if they'll sleep with you within 5 minutes of meeting you.
3) Even if a woman does go out with you, she won't tell you if she plans to sleep with you or not!
4) Women will usually NOT make the first move. 5) If you don't make the right move at the right time, the women will usually think you're weak, an oaf, gay, or just not interested.
6) Women and men view sex differently - women use sex to bond and create intimacy, men use sex to decide if they want to get more intimate.
How to Make That "First Move" (for Men):
Because of the rules stated above, you have to be somewhat careful of when and where to make your move. You want this to appear spontaneous, and, with the right preparation - you can! These seem to go against each other - prepare to be spontaneous? Yes - remember the 7 "P's": "Prior, Proper Planning Prevents Piss-Poor Performance!"
Give some thought to your moves before using them. This will help to make them appear more comfortable and therefore spontaneous. So, with that introduction, here are the steps:
1) Be sure you're ready - once you begin, you can't go back! Just like that move when you were in High School where you stretch and your arm "just happens" to wind up around your date's shoulder. Also, do you have a condom? You don't? Then forget it! Remember: "No glove - NO LOVE!"
2) Be reasonably sure she's ready. How do you know she's ready? You can't really be 100 percent sure, but you can get pretty close if you just pay attention. First, is she using the right body language? For example:
Touching you both accidentally and on purpose
Sitting or leaning against you
Looking right into your eyes, examining your face - especially your mouth
Leaning toward you as you speak?
Using an "open posture" - arms uncrossed; legs open, or if crossed, not excluding you?
Playing with her hair, exposing her palms and wrists to you?
Also, has she just told you she has an early-morning meeting, or has relatives staying at her place? She is probably telling you that this isn't the right time. In short, be open to clues.
3) Make sure you're in the right place. Once you get things started, you don't want to have to stop and drive somewhere else. Why not get there and then make your move - you'll keep things from cooling off - and possibly a change of heart. Also, make sure that you're in a private setting - even if you're in the back seat of your car. Nothing spoils the mood like someone watching (well, unless you both are into that!)
4) Plan plenty of time Having an appointment in 30 minutes isn't going to create a romantic atmosphere. Be sure you have enough time to really spend getting you both ready.
5) Have a proper "build-up" You don't want to show up at her door, walk in and start putting on the moves. Poor form old buddy! Plan a simple, but romantic date. Don't go to the movies or the theatre - you need time to talk and establish a connection.
6) Ready? Ok, let's go So, what's the first thing you should do? Get your confidence up. Wait for a comfortable break in the conversation. Then, take her hands in yours, draw her close to you and gently kiss her on the lips. Don't shove your tongue down her throat, and don't kiss her like she's your grandmother. Make it linger just a little too long, and give her a chance to respond. You might also want to offer a back or foot massage - these are almost impossible to resist!
7) When she's ready to move, she'll usually let you know But, what if she doesn't? Some women let you take charge when they're ready. You can start by kissing her neck and gently nibbling on her lower lip. Brush your nose gently around hers. Explore her neck and face with yours. Run your hands around her back, then slowly to her ass. Note her reactions.
8) Don't go for the "goodies" until you've spent some time earning them! If you're in a hurry to get her out of her clothes, she'll assume that you're just as fast at everything else. Let things build on their own - at their own pace. Let them move along slowly, don't force them - or get in the way of them either!
How to Make That "First Move" (for Women):
Frankly, this is a lot easier for women. You probably already know what to do. Here's a checklist: 1) Make sure you're ready. If you're trying to seduce him just because you're afraid of losing him, you're not in the best place and should reconsider. Also, you should carry condoms on you. Remember - you both are responsible for preventing the spread of disease and unwanted children!
2) Don't worry about him - he's ready!
3) Ask him to go some place more private - like your place You don't really need to go into anything more than this - the invitation is all that's necessary.
4) Let him know that you're ready If you're not comfortable just telling him (few women are!), let him know in other ways. Use open body language, get close to him and use physical contact, lay your head on this chest, use eye contact, talk "sex", etc.
5) Important - give the conversation a break! This is the most often missed aspect of the first move. If he is politely listening to you and you go on and on without a break - where's he supposed to jump in? If you're nervous, this is especially difficult. Just try to be aware of your conversation.
6) There is nothing wrong with you making the first move You absolutely can put your hands on either side of his face and kiss him. In fact, some men actually wait for this because they don't know when to make a move themselves. You can even tell him that you're ready.
7) Feeling bold? I've had many women tell me that they were ready by standing up and stripping for me, or take off their blouse and turn to walk into the bedroom. I mean, how obvious do you need to get? If this doesn't work for him, you've got the wrong guy!
8) Help him along This is a strange thing to say, but many women don't understand that their men might not know what to do - or at least what you like. If you don't tell him (or subtly show him), how's he going to know? Believe me, men don't read minds!
First-Sex Etiquette
Many people don't know what to do after the first sexual experience with a new partner. At least the first time, don't plan to spend the night. Why not? If you do, you'll probably need your regular things for the morning - toothbrush, deodorant, denture cream, (just kidding!), etc. If you whip out the over-night kit, all of your work making this a spontaneous event will be lost.
Also, don't just jump up grab your clothes and bolt! Spend some time cuddling or at least telling stories and having a laugh. This doesn't have to be deep and intimate - just spend some time saying that you enjoyed each other. You might want to grab some dessert out of the fridge, or watch the end of an old movie. Men - if you want an encore performance, this step is critical!
Finally, have fun! This isn't the end - it's the beginning!

Ivan Pavlov was a physiologist who stumbled upon one of the most important principles in all of psychology.
Pavlov discovered that he could teach dogs to salivate at the sound of a tone if he repeatedly paired the tone with the presentation of food. The dogs learned that the tone was a good predictor for food (which they liked and which naturally elicited a salivary response). Thus, by repeatedly pairing the tone and the food, the dogs learned to salivate to the sound of the tone... regardless of whether or not food was present.
This is known as classical conditioning and it's quite an omnipresent phenomenon which influences most every aspect of our lives... especially our love lives.
You see, EMOTIONS are particularly susceptible to classical conditioning. Emotions are very often "elicited" by certain circumstances as a result of past learning experiences (that is, previous pairings or associations).
An obvious example is the emotion of fear. People often learn to fear things because of previous unpleasant associations. For example, a person may come to fear dentists (or perhaps the sound of a drill) because of past painful dental procedures.
A woman who has been attacked may develop a fear of strangers or a fear of men. Or maybe it's the garage or neighborhood in which she was attacked that come to elicit feelings of fear and anxiety. It's a simple pairing of a particular situation (or person) with an emotion which causes similar situations (or persons) to elicit similar emotions in the future.
On the positive side, think about an old girlfriend of yours that you adored. (Everybody has at least one that they blew it with.) You were crazy about this girl and would have done anything for her. As a result you may have done a few things you didn't really care too much for.
Maybe she was really into Italian food but you weren't. Frequently you wound up in Italian restaurants in order to keep her happy. As a result of the pairing of Italian food with this adorable lady, you NOW love Italian food. Or maybe it's a particular Italian restaurant that you two frequented that you NOW love.
Perhaps she used to love hiking so now you do. Or she was crazy about cats and now you have several. Or maybe it was a particular movie that the two of you saw together that still makes you feel queasy. Or a particular song (your song) that brings back a flood of vivid memories and intense emotions. Whatever. Your feelings for her were transferred to various other objects, situations, or people as a result of being paired with her.
It's really fascinating to observe this pairing of situations and emotions. Try to pay attention to the "classical conditioning" happening around you as you go about your daily routine. It occurs ALL THE TIME. And it's really quite interesting.
Now that we grasp the basics of classical conditioning, the question becomes, "How can we use classical conditioning to help us in our relationships with women?"
We could probably write an entire book on classical conditioning and how it influences our love lives, our relationships, and our emotions. But I'm just going to point out one or two things to you right now and leave you to discover some of the other *secrets* yourself.
Let's assume that the object of your affection (your girlfriend, or maybe a beauty you're attracted to) is always in either a good mood, neutral mood, or bad mood. That is, she's either experiencing good emotions, neutral emotions, or bad emotions.
Our goal is simply to associate ourselves with her good emotions and dissociate ourselves from her bad emotions. In this way, we can MAKE OURSELVES into a type of infectious, charismatic individual who elicits positive emotions and positive feelings... simply by showing up.
And that's what you want, isn't it? You want her to be excited and happy and feel good when you come around. You want her to look forward to seeing you because she knows that she's going to feel great. Isn't that how your lady (or the lady you desire) makes you feel - happy, excited, positive?
And you definitely don't want your presence to elicit feelings of depression, anger, or anxiety.
It's pretty simple. The major point here to remember is that you want to be around her when she's in a good mood and avoid her, like the plague, when she's in a bad mood.
Nothing earth-shaking here. Yet it's amazing how guys can screw this up. Sometimes putting themselves through a great deal of extra effort in order to do so.
If the beauty at your office is in a bad mood (she's got a plumbing problem), then you should spend as little time with her as possible that day. If that cute little blond in your history class is feeling exhausted (up all night studying), then this is not a good time to ask her to lunch. If your girlfriend has a mean case of PMS, stay away from her until she's in a more agreeable mood.
By avoiding her when she's feeling bad, you're not pairing yourself with her negative emotional states... and conditioning yourself to be a "negative emotion generator."
Now if she's in a good or great mood, then you should maximize your time together. This should be obvious. And my guess is that you probably WANT to be around her when she's feeling good anyway. So do it.
And even if you can't spend that much time with her when she's feeling good, then you'd like to at least get her thinking about you. Call her on the phone. Send her a quick email. Accidentally bump into her in the breakroom. Tell her a joke - jokes tend to linger in the mind. Whatever. Use your imagination.
(As far as neutral moods go, you goal is to change those into happy, exciting moods and associate yourself with these moods... but that's a subject to be covered in the future.)
However, as mentioned, many guys screw this up.
If their girlfriend (or potential girlfriend) is in a bad mood, they may try to make her feel better. They drop by her place with food and ice cream - to cheer her up. They insist on taking her out to lunch or dinner - brighten her day a little. They try to make her laugh. They do her favors. They spend hours on the phone sympathizing with her. They hang and hang and hang around. They do everything BUT what they should do... stay away. Dissociate.
Now this budding Don Juan usually THINKS that his girlfriend (or potential love object) being down or in a bad mood is an opportunity for him to make a few points. That by doing his best to make her feel better that she's, of course, going to realize what a great guy he is... and maybe fall for him.
It's possible. Anything's possible. But I wouldn't bet on it. All you're really doing is exerting extra effort to pair yourself with her negative emotional states. Yes, you might make her feel a little better, but you're most likely doing more damage to your "charisma" than good.
Keep things simple. Just stay away.
And if you're a sensitive guy who feels bad because she feels bad... well, remember that people often LIKE to feel down sometimes. People often LIKE getting upset and venting. Somehow it helps them to keep their lives in balance. Give her the freedom to feel bad if she wants.
On the other hand, if she's been emotionally DEVASTATED that's a different situation.
Maybe her best friend died. Maybe her new car got totaled. Maybe her cat was run over. Whatever - it varies from girl to girl. If she's your girlfriend (or significant other), she's going to EXPECT you to be there for her emotionally. She's going to want to lean on you and draw strength from you. She's going to want to emotionally vent to you. And if you're not there for her, she's going to "hate" you for it.
However, if she's been devastated and she's NOT your girlfriend (just someone that you'd like to be), then it's probably best to stay away until she's feeling better.
As mentioned, classical conditioning is happening constantly and I can't possibly go into all of the related scenarios, but I'll briefly mention one other instance... that of "good" and "bad" news.
Yes, delivering bad news does rub off on to the person unfortunate enough to deliver it. It's one of the most potent cases of classical conditioning. She's feeling good. You arrive and deliver the bad news. She's now feeling bad. Not exactly what you should aspire to.
Never deliver bad news to a girl you're attracted to. Get someone else to do it. Bribe someone if you have to. Just make sure you're someplace else.
Now as far as delivering good news... Ooooh Yeeaah!!

Comfort: Comfort is one thing that, most women always hunger for deep down and desire longingly.
A good majority of women are scared sick of men they don't know, especially those that dont know how to smile and laugh. (Look out for the next new article "Laughing") Women want to feel that they can trust the guy they're with to the point where she can go call her girl friends and boast about him...even if it was the first date. Making her comfortable can drastically shorten the path to her heart and make her feel like she can be totally relaxed and open with you, which is what you want. So when you can get her to start revealing personal details about herself, then, you know she really feels comfortable being around you and with you.
Start Off Right: The first thing you want to do as soon you meet her, say your hello's and begin talking together is to show her respect: respect her intellegence (if she is intellegent), respect her body, and respect the dialog. What do I mean?
Lets take "her intellegence" first. You want to talk to her on the same plane, not talk down to her, not act as if you're more intellegent or smart, she will just think you're stuckup and will get what - uncomfortable. Not Good.
Now when it comes to respecting her body, every guy should know what that means, come to think of it, girls complain about it constantly. However, for those of you who still dont know, respecting a girls body means you look into her eyes and try to elicit what shes saying to you rather than stare at the personality (breasts). It also means that you check out her hips and ass, when she leaves, when she looks away etc...you want to give the impression you're different from most guys, right!! She will notice if you look into her eyes rather than into her bosom.
When you saw the term "respect the dialog" you probably wondered what I meant. That means you need to be deeply engrossed in the conversation shes having with you. Dont talk to your buddy across the way, gaze at the other girl passing, checking your watch etc. Focus all your attention on her, and look deeply into her eyes as she speak to you. She will see a different guy who is genuinely interested in her and not just for her body, and her comfort level will increase.
Sensual Moves: Something as simple as telling your woman her DRESS looks sexy on her or complimenting her unique sense of style or intelligence will make her feel as though you appreciate having her by your side. Women are very self concious, so when you reassure her that something about her is attractive or complementary, she will be drawn to you and this increases her comfort level. (Side note: You notice I didnt say she looks sexy, but the DRESS makes her look sexy)
Start going out of your way to make her feel comfortable, relaxed and open by doing little things like taking her to that place she always wanted, and again guys, you have to be careful not to give the impression that youre a supplicator, always spending your cash to WIN her over.
Make a whole conversation about her eyes....tell her how interesting and penetrating they are and the kind of feelings they engender deep inside as you look deep inside them.
Go into details and use every descriptive word you can get your brain on. Massage her feet to Artists like Mario, R. Kelly, Joe, D'Angello, Maxwell, Barry White, Baby face etc....-- they matter most after all.
Tease her: The point behind a tease to bring out the need in her for you. For one, you can kiss her on the cheeks, on the neck, all over her face for that matter, getting as close to her mouth as you must without kissing her lips. Do your best to tease her until she's absolutely begging you to give it to her. The fact that you can hold yourself back will turn her on, and the aftereffect (her reminiscing) of your ability to keep yourself away from instantly penetrating her most cherished and delicate desires, especially if she's an 8 or 9, will serve to make her want you even more.
Talk sex: Instead of always trying your best to get into her panties (which by the way turn most women off), spend some time discussing sex instead. Your fantasies, her fantasies, what you love about making love to her, your erogenous zones... anything goes. Now this "talk sex" advice is assuming that you are already banging her. If you're still trying to get into her pants, this must be done delicately. See my dynamite article on sex talk for ideas on how to get her talking sex without her thinking you're a pervert or shallow.
Kiss her for no reason: Most women love kissing. There are too many guys who just dont know how to just kiss a woman wickedly and just walk away. Most expect much more to take place right afterwards. Enjoy the kiss. Sometimes it is not possible to kiss her and start taking off all your clothes so you can get into her pants. Kiss her passionately and don't try to make love to her. Give her a sensual massage without trying to grab at her breasts. If there is one thing that i can tell you guys is, a massage works wonders. If you never do anything I suggest, if you think this material is crap, if you think all the techniques written on the pages of this site is a joke..thats fine. GOOD IS AS GOOD AS YOU KNOW GOOD TO BE.
But, dont take lightly the fact that a massage puts a woman in heaven so to speak.
I tell you this, if you can get her to agree to a sensual massage, (that means you will have to do the phone work first) and you took the time to really diligently learn how a massage is done, I put money on it that you fuck every woman you massage. The thing is, once she start to get the massage, that puts her in that relaxed comfortable mood, which is where you want her.
Then the massage multiply that 10 times! The trick is, while you're massaging her, concentrate on the massage, not on sexing her. Do the work and do it well. When you're done, make your move, dont pause between the end of the massage and the beginning of the kissing of her body, face etc.
This will not only pique her sexual curiosity, she will start wanting you to come on to her more than ever and she'll give you that very thing you always wanted, ( you pervert :) ). See new article: How to give a sensual massage
Be A Gentleman: Once she gives you the ok (tacitly or verbally) to start kissing her neck, her body, her thighs.....basically, she wants to fuck; that dosent mean you have to be a pig now.
Remember, you want the experience to be memorable, not just the sex. Dont start getting all busy too fast, ignoring the sensual nature of the evening, women hate that too by the way. Next time she won't be as interested in making love to you. You need to show yourself different from most men, show her that there is something unique and special about being with you as opposed to most men. After all, women claims to know men and stereo type us as all the same. So, when they find that you're "different" :) then they will want you all to themselves :)
When it's obvious that she's in the mood, don't tell her you're tired -- that will really make her feel like you have energy for everything but her. She wont feel special. Rather, tell her something like, "If you want me to penetrate you tonight, imagine how much more you'll want it tomorrow..." Kiss her and leave it at that....

You don’t need a guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a full head of hair to make a great impression on a woman. Follow these tips, and she’ll want to hear from you again real soon:
1. Go out with another woman. If you’re going out to a club or a bar, take a female friend or your sister with you. Women are often more amenable to talking to men who are with other women. It gives them the feeling that you actually like women, and that’s attractive. If your female friend is outgoing, see if she’ll make small talk with somebody you’d like to meet. She can say something along the lines of, “I love your necklace!” and that should do it. After a little back-and-forth, your friend can say, “Oh, how rude of me. This is my friend Andy,” and you’re in business.
2. Look women in the eye. It seems elementary, but you’d be surprised at how many guys either undress a woman with their eyes or avoid eye contact altogether. Women love it when you look them in the eye.
3. Don’t try to “buy” her. If you buy her a drink, she is obligated to say thank you and that’s it. If she accepts the drink, the polite thing for her to do would be to spend a little time talking to you, but that’s all. On the other hand, if a woman takes the drink and walks away, let her go. You wouldn’t want spend time with her, anyway. Trust me.
4. Find out her interests. Get her talking about what she’s crazy about, whether it’s David Bowie or the New York Mets. If you don’t get it, you can say something like, “You know, I’m not too familiar with Bowie. What CD would you recommend?” Or, “I’m more into football than baseball. What is it about baseball that you like?” Ask a woman her opinion, and you’ll have her eating out of your hand (we have more in common with guys than you think).
5. Listen more, talk less. Hey, I’m not suggesting that you let her do all the talking, but some guys meet a woman and then never shut up. Don’t try to impress her! Don’t brag about your GPA at Harvard, the Jag in your driveway, or the fact that you’re CEO of a tuna fish conglomerate. You’ll get precisely the kind of woman you don’t want, the one who’s only into you for your achievements and possessions, rather than for who you really are. Instead, ask questions and listen for the answers. Give your opinions. Get to know the woman. Let her get to know you.
6. Be optimistic. In other words, this is no time to discuss how oil prices are going through the roof, what a witch your ex-girlfriend was, or that your parents never gave you enough attention. If you run out of things to talk about, ask her if she’s seen the latest hit at the box office.
7. Be chaste. Do not try to go to bed with a woman right away. Sure, there’s a chance that if you go for it, she will, but if you’re hoping for a lasting relationship, you set up all sorts of weirdness if you “do it” too soon. Crazy as it sounds, if she sleeps with you, she may not respect you in the morning (you didn’t know that, did you?). She’ll figure that you get into bed with every woman you meet, which pretty much rules you out as boyfriend material. (Or she may be the type who thinks you owe her because she slept with you, which makes her really bad girlfriend material.) Save yourself undue angst and get to know a person before getting into bed with her.
8. Make a great exit. If you want to see her again, ask for her number (preface this with something casual, “Maybe we can get together some time.”). Then touch her shoulder (a little restraint is sexier here; don’t try to kiss her) and tell her you’ll be in touch. Then leave. If your friends aren’t ready to go yet, tell her you have to hang out with them. Walk away. The key here is to keep her wanting more.
9. Call her. If you said you were going to call, you can avoid looking desperate by waiting two days, but no longer. A plea on behalf of the female sex: If you’re not interested in a woman, do not—I repeat—do not say you’ll call. Say, “Nice meeting you,” and be on your way. Besides, collecting numbers to feed your ego is kind of sad.
10. Treat women as you’d have them treat you. The media have brainwashed us to believe that men and women come from different planets, but we’re all human. Some of the biggest losers in love are women who complain that all men are the same, they all want one thing, and so on. But it’s equally sad when a guy assumes all women are like his mother or his psychopathic ex-girlfriend. You’ll enjoy astonishing success with women if you understand two simple facts: We’re people. We're more like you than you think.