Attraction Myth # 1
"Being An Attractive Man Is Always About Appealing To What Women Say They Want..."
Most men think "Attraction" is what a woman prefers. I can remember only a few years back, seeing an attractive woman and thinking to myself: "She'd probably never feel attraction toward me because I'm not tall enough, funny enough, muscular enough…and so on." Was I crazy for thinking this? Not at all. Women prefer men who are tall, dark, and handsome…with really big penises. If this is what Attraction was, most of the male population would be out of luck. This, thank God, is NOT what Attraction is.
Fact: Many Beautiful Women Are Attracted To Men Whom Are Ugly, Short, Bald, Fat, Poor…And So On, Because ATTRACTION Has Nothing To Do With What Women Prefer.
Generating Attraction in women is about creating the emotion inside them of wanting, reaching, and chasing for more of you. Many dating experts will tell you that if you want to attract women you better appeal to what they prefer by, for example, getting in shape, developing your sense of humor, honing your style…and so on. Women love when men possess these qualities. And if a woman is already attracted to a man and he has some of these qualities, chances are, she'll be even more attracted to him. But having these qualities in and of themselves will not make women attracted to you –because this is not what attraction is. This is what most dating experts don't realize. The only way to generate massive attraction in women is to learn to spark the emotion of them wanting, reaching and chasing for more of you.
I'm going to teach you step-by-step how to generate this emotion with any and every woman you desire, making her want and reach and chase for more of you…and you won't learn this method anywhere else because I'm the only one teaching it.
Keep reading to learn exactly how to do this...
Attraction Myth # 2
"Impressing, Getting Validation From, Or Winning A Woman Over Will Make Her Attracted To You..."
Most dating experts will give you tons of advice, tactics, and pickup lines for impressing, getting validation from, and winning women over. Many of these techniques seem tempting because we have a natural inclination toward wanting validation from others. Following this advice, however, is one of the biggest mistakes you could make. I should know. I've tried every trick in the book to get women's validation…and it generated absolutely zero attraction.
Fact: Women are attracted to men who establish themselves as the PRIZE in the interaction. When you try to impress, get validation from, or win a woman over, you are conveying to her that you are not the PRIZE, preventing you from generating Any attraction with her.
Some dating experts will tell you to believe and be the PRIZE with women. They fail, however, to break down the "how-to" of being the Prize with women.
Some Essential Dating Advice For Men
Thursday, November 10, 2005, 04:11 PM [The Arts of Seduction]
If you're a single guy still looking for your dream POA (piece of ass), I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know. Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out :
1 ) Don't Try To Act Like A Fake On The First Date
A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche. Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.
Acting like a phoney with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive. She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!
2 ) Create New Memories Instead Of Swapping Them
Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.
It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."
For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.
So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere. Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.
3 ) Don't Be A Bore
A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!
The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background. Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)
4 ) Forget About Trying To Act "Like Yourself"
The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.
Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phoney- baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.
So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks. Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.
5 ) Five Minutes Of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down
After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND. You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!
Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.
6 ) Obsession Is The Hallmark Of The Weak Male
Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested. Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.
7 ) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It
I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind! Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.
Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH. Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.
Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!
1 ) Don't Try To Act Like A Fake On The First Date
A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche. Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.
Acting like a phoney with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive. She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!
2 ) Create New Memories Instead Of Swapping Them
Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.
It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."
For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.
So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere. Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.
3 ) Don't Be A Bore
A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!
The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background. Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)
4 ) Forget About Trying To Act "Like Yourself"
The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.
Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phoney- baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.
So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks. Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.
5 ) Five Minutes Of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down
After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND. You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!
Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.
6 ) Obsession Is The Hallmark Of The Weak Male
Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested. Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.
7 ) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It
I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind! Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.
Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH. Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.
Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!
THE Lay Her Massage
Thursday, November 10, 2005, 04:11 PM [The Arts of Seduction]
Everyone it seem, just love that penetrating :) tantilizing touch...that warm, relaxing and soothing feeling that massage brings to the senses.
Women just love massages. So suggesting that you give her a massage might make her bright eye light up with fond memories and anticipation of how good it can feel all over. You can bring up the subject by simply asking if she ever had a massage, or you can ask her questions like, "How do you pamper yourself" or "Seem like you work really hard, i hope you take time out to pamper yourself". Then take her there mentally, meaning you start to describe "the aroma of the room, the soothing feelings you feel, the relaxing music in the background that just massages your mind, the beautiful landscape that seem so peaceful...as you begin to feel more and more relaxed, at ease, and peaceful....making you feel so comfortable as if youre somewhere quiet and relaxing and peaceful....and it just feel unbelievably good the way the oil just caress your body..." etc etc.
Pre-Massage Prep: Once you both decide on the massage,
you need to take the time to prepare the venue. Never do it at her place. Always suggest her to come over to your place. Reason being, you have all the time in the world to do your Pre-Massage Prep.
Taking the time to create a sensual and appealing environment for your erotic massage shows that you care about her (even if you don't) and value her pleasure and interests. Start by turning off the phones, putting on some specially put together music. For example Bobby Valentine, R. Kelly, Joe, Maxwell, DA'ngello, etc...depending on who your guest is.
Illuminate the room with either candles or soft indirect lamps, burn some really sensual incense, select something that is lightly scented and neutral and turn up the heat to where one would be comfortable lying down naked. Now, be professional, make sure your finger nails are clipped, go out and get yourself a massage oil warmer, keep your lubricants and oils within easy reach, and cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket. Guys, I do this all the time. No need for the table if you dont have one....spread that sheet (that you use for this purpose) on the bed, she will have no problem lying on it......and ofcourse you want her on the bed....:) Make sure to give her a towel to cover her backside, remember, you want to be professional...at least until you get her dripping wet :) ....which you will. Read on.
By the way, you can use pieces of (even fake) fur or feather for additional sensual tantalization, and an eye pillow or blindfold can be helpful in blocking out any unwanted light but this is not necessary.
Sensual Strokes:
Now for the action. For those who dont know any massage techniques you can go to Amazon.com and pick one up. If you look to the right, I have included some short video clips for your viewing pleasure.
Lay her nude (or semi-nude) body down on the bed and make sure she's in a comfortable position, this is important. Smooth the oil over her entire back in wide, smooth strokes with the flat part of your palm. Don't knead her body as yet. Just let the oil penetrate her skin as she gets used to your hands all over her :).
Rub her slowly and deeply: remember to be continuously sensual, but professional (for now) :-) Take your time and rub her in a way that makes her feel like you're willing to devote all the time in the world to her. And depending on the music, its more romantic and penetrating, mentally to massage her to the pace of the music. Keep your hands on her body at all times, ocasionally getting feedback as to how she likes it.
Work your way down from the back of her neck to her shoulders. Don't squeeze her neck because you may end up causing an unwanted choking sensation. If you're working the shoulders, be careful not to squeeze her collarbones with the muscle because it's an agonizing sensation.
Stretch out her arms and massage her biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach her tailbone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings.
Give her a little TLC: After you've done your duty on her back and arms, work your way down to her legs, especially her inner thighs because they are incredibly sensitive. Her legs should be given special care. You don't have to be as cautious as with her back, but still remain gentle.
Rub her legs one section at a time, starting at her thighs, moving to her calves and finally ending at her feet. Now if you want to relax her some more, spend some time on her feet before saying, done.
After massaging her back, legs, and feet, have her turn over. Massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. It can feel good to
brush the genitals when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This "unintentional" teasing can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point her erotic energy is building and you will notice that shes all wet when you brush against the cochie. At this point you can gently kiss her stomach slowly working your way up to her breasts. Make sure you keep it in "massage mode" for a few, so as to get her more and more sexually aroused. Never get hasty with your moves but massage her body with your tongue and your kisses.....see cunnilingus.
At this point its over...she's gonna want you inside of her so bad, she wont even remember she was getting a massage. And you know what...she will never forget you :) A mater of fact she will be thinking about the experience so much that she will beg to come over next time.
Women just love massages. So suggesting that you give her a massage might make her bright eye light up with fond memories and anticipation of how good it can feel all over. You can bring up the subject by simply asking if she ever had a massage, or you can ask her questions like, "How do you pamper yourself" or "Seem like you work really hard, i hope you take time out to pamper yourself". Then take her there mentally, meaning you start to describe "the aroma of the room, the soothing feelings you feel, the relaxing music in the background that just massages your mind, the beautiful landscape that seem so peaceful...as you begin to feel more and more relaxed, at ease, and peaceful....making you feel so comfortable as if youre somewhere quiet and relaxing and peaceful....and it just feel unbelievably good the way the oil just caress your body..." etc etc.
Pre-Massage Prep: Once you both decide on the massage,
you need to take the time to prepare the venue. Never do it at her place. Always suggest her to come over to your place. Reason being, you have all the time in the world to do your Pre-Massage Prep.
Taking the time to create a sensual and appealing environment for your erotic massage shows that you care about her (even if you don't) and value her pleasure and interests. Start by turning off the phones, putting on some specially put together music. For example Bobby Valentine, R. Kelly, Joe, Maxwell, DA'ngello, etc...depending on who your guest is.
Illuminate the room with either candles or soft indirect lamps, burn some really sensual incense, select something that is lightly scented and neutral and turn up the heat to where one would be comfortable lying down naked. Now, be professional, make sure your finger nails are clipped, go out and get yourself a massage oil warmer, keep your lubricants and oils within easy reach, and cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket. Guys, I do this all the time. No need for the table if you dont have one....spread that sheet (that you use for this purpose) on the bed, she will have no problem lying on it......and ofcourse you want her on the bed....:) Make sure to give her a towel to cover her backside, remember, you want to be professional...at least until you get her dripping wet :) ....which you will. Read on.
By the way, you can use pieces of (even fake) fur or feather for additional sensual tantalization, and an eye pillow or blindfold can be helpful in blocking out any unwanted light but this is not necessary.
Sensual Strokes:
Now for the action. For those who dont know any massage techniques you can go to Amazon.com and pick one up. If you look to the right, I have included some short video clips for your viewing pleasure.
Lay her nude (or semi-nude) body down on the bed and make sure she's in a comfortable position, this is important. Smooth the oil over her entire back in wide, smooth strokes with the flat part of your palm. Don't knead her body as yet. Just let the oil penetrate her skin as she gets used to your hands all over her :).
Rub her slowly and deeply: remember to be continuously sensual, but professional (for now) :-) Take your time and rub her in a way that makes her feel like you're willing to devote all the time in the world to her. And depending on the music, its more romantic and penetrating, mentally to massage her to the pace of the music. Keep your hands on her body at all times, ocasionally getting feedback as to how she likes it.
Work your way down from the back of her neck to her shoulders. Don't squeeze her neck because you may end up causing an unwanted choking sensation. If you're working the shoulders, be careful not to squeeze her collarbones with the muscle because it's an agonizing sensation.
Stretch out her arms and massage her biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach her tailbone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings.
Give her a little TLC: After you've done your duty on her back and arms, work your way down to her legs, especially her inner thighs because they are incredibly sensitive. Her legs should be given special care. You don't have to be as cautious as with her back, but still remain gentle.
Rub her legs one section at a time, starting at her thighs, moving to her calves and finally ending at her feet. Now if you want to relax her some more, spend some time on her feet before saying, done.
After massaging her back, legs, and feet, have her turn over. Massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. It can feel good to
brush the genitals when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This "unintentional" teasing can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point her erotic energy is building and you will notice that shes all wet when you brush against the cochie. At this point you can gently kiss her stomach slowly working your way up to her breasts. Make sure you keep it in "massage mode" for a few, so as to get her more and more sexually aroused. Never get hasty with your moves but massage her body with your tongue and your kisses.....see cunnilingus.
At this point its over...she's gonna want you inside of her so bad, she wont even remember she was getting a massage. And you know what...she will never forget you :) A mater of fact she will be thinking about the experience so much that she will beg to come over next time.